Dear Dr.DJ
I have a friend that I feel she is dangerous and that she has serious mental issues, the least of which is being a pathological liar. She really thinks she has some kind of powers but is very manipulative and if you go against her, she goes after your family, friends and any one that stands in her way. I saw her and was involved with her when she has done this to other people.She is starting to scare me with her tactics of destroying people to get what she wants. But I am not sure what she wants and why she does this. She claims to be friends with the D.A.
She has asked us to destroy people's personal property, to spy on them and take pictures just to let them know that she is watching them. She gets on the internet and makes slanderous comments about them and also against their family and friends. What she blames other people of doing, she is doing.What is wrong with her and how can I break away from her?
I have a friend that I feel she is dangerous and that she has serious mental issues, the least of which is being a pathological liar. She really thinks she has some kind of powers but is very manipulative and if you go against her, she goes after your family, friends and any one that stands in her way. I saw her and was involved with her when she has done this to other people.She is starting to scare me with her tactics of destroying people to get what she wants. But I am not sure what she wants and why she does this. She claims to be friends with the D.A.
She has asked us to destroy people's personal property, to spy on them and take pictures just to let them know that she is watching them. She gets on the internet and makes slanderous comments about them and also against their family and friends. What she blames other people of doing, she is doing.What is wrong with her and how can I break away from her?
Want to Break Away
Dear Want to Break Away,
Dear Want to Break Away,
Sounds like this person is a narcissist sociopath, and who tend to make very good first impressions on others. They are excellent actors and can fool almost anybody, even trained individuals. However, they have counterfeit hearts. Underneath their brilliant exterior lie a person that is self-centered, dishonest, irresponsible, and lacking emotions, remorse, and a conscience. These people live with a false sense of grandiosity and special ness and are easily found to be arrogant and deceitful. Underneath the fake exterior is an empty fraud that is lacking a human soul.
You have to understand and recognize these symptoms and deal very carefully with this person. The sociopath is a person without conscience, with a lust for control of other people. The tools of a sociopath are charm and distortion of reality. It is a sickness and the causes are either both genetic and environmental but not fully understood, yet.
Dealing with this situation or this person is very complex. Try to gradually pull away from this person and avoid getting involved with her.
Good Luck.
You have to understand and recognize these symptoms and deal very carefully with this person. The sociopath is a person without conscience, with a lust for control of other people. The tools of a sociopath are charm and distortion of reality. It is a sickness and the causes are either both genetic and environmental but not fully understood, yet.
Dealing with this situation or this person is very complex. Try to gradually pull away from this person and avoid getting involved with her.
Good Luck.
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